A little confused.

I need some help with a problem that I'm having in my relationship. If anyone might be able to help me with an insecure boyfriend, please let me know.

If your boyfriend works on improving himself as a person, he will experience a boost in self-esteem, which will make him feel more "deserving" of a good catch.

Does he engage in any activity that allows him to view himself as a good, worthy person? Is he educated?

Also, I think insecurity is a symptom of youth, and to a large extent one outgrows a certain amount of this, assuming a normal process of maturing...