Would you want a 1 night stand or real sex?

Well, I was bored and just simple out of my state of being, so I decided to see what the rest of the world was "Really" intrested in.
If you found a mate who was really your type and had all the qualitys you been looking for, would you consider that person for a one night stand? Or just make love with the person you love?

aww.....sounds a little immature, but let's see the results. Be honest now.

Well, I can't really answer this in full detail do to the fact that I am in the far side of my state of being(love problem).
By the way, you are all welcome to help me out in the Dating Columm, look for "should I hold on to her, Dilemma".
I need help guys, seriously.

well.. I have found someone of similar qualities. I am not a one night stand kindof girl.. I was but now thatI am older, (31) I am ready for more then that.

Yeh, I use to be the same. I use to go around, I was worst then the salt when they said, "can you please past the salt"?
Yeh, I stoped when I bumped into my friend. From the moment on, I knew I had to be serious with myself and my future. Ofcourse I still have the want to do it with anyone of my choosing, but she tends to relax my heart. Man, I could attract older women and married women. Some of them would offer to pay for a motel(or hotel) just to sleep with me. But that is not the life I wanted. Now if I do want some, I want it to be with heart.

Real "love". Always more, never less.

1 night stand!!! :D

Wouldn't it make more sense to have a one-night stand with someone you *didn't* want for a LTR?

I see no attraction to a one night stand. I mean if I become attracted to someone and I'm intoxicated I may fool around but there's no set of beer goggles in existance to ever allow me to have sex with someone I don't know.

if you found someone that you really clicked with, why for any reason would you only be interested in a one night stand? if you found the gold, you might as well spend it and go for everything. raverboy

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Originally posted by IceQueen
Wouldn't it make more sense to have a one-night stand with someone you *didn't* want for a LTR?

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That's my POV. Check the girl out, if she's LTR material don't go straight for it (of course, there are always some exceptions), but if she's not LTR material, ONS em.

Illusion, u calling me Raverboy???

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Originally posted by Zekk_T_Strife
I see no attraction to a one night stand. I mean if I become attracted to someone and I'm intoxicated I may fool around but there's no set of beer goggles in existance to ever allow me to have sex with someone I don't know.

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ho hum...
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am i calling you a raverboy?? hahahah that is pretty funny. if you take a look at all my posts, i end every post with raverboy. it was my old sn when i was into raving. raverboy

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Originally posted by Illusional
am i calling you a raverboy?? hahahah that is pretty funny. if you take a look at all my posts, i end every post with raverboy. it was my old sn when i was into raving. raverboy

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ohh...sorry. I see that now.

I can't do a one night stand. Someone always ends up hurt. No point in that. I'm in it for something a little more substaintial that just a quick lay.

But, since I'm not in the market for that since I'm spoken for, a one night stand would be out of the question even if the possibility of one came up.

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I had what I thought was goin to be my first one stand about 3 months ago... didn't even think I'd see her again, but then, by shear coincidence, she got my number, we dated, and then just the other day she asked me to be her boyfriend!

Sure, not the ideal way to meet a future partner, but in this instance I wouldn't have wanted it any different. It was good to get to know someone who you knew found you physically attractive and vise versa and it therefore made it easier to build a relationship without the 'ooh does he/she find me attractive?' worries...