about a month ago i met my friends roommate in a spinning class... when i saw her i felt incredible, i have never felt this way about someone before. I've known my friend for about 2 years and we get along great. after about two weeks of going to spinning class i became more attracted to her roommate as i got to know her better. just this past week we went on a camping trip to visit a friend of ours. at first nothing was really going on between the two of us, i was nervous so i didnt talk much. the drive was about 9 hours and we just talked about music and shared stories with eachother.
I kinda had a feeling that she liked me but i wasnt sure. she opened up more on the trip and we had some good laughs and found out a lot about eachother, we had relationship talks and talks about life... basically it was going great. we had a lot of fun on the camping portion of the trip. when we got back to my friends house they decided we should go out and celebrate because it would be our last night visiting our friend. we had too much fun that night, we were all drunk and decided to watch super troopers. well she didnt stay up for it so i went to check on her. turns out she was in bed so i asked if she was ok and she said yeah but shes tired. I said i too was tired and she invited me to lay down next to her.
i layed down next to her and we spoke for a little bit, then she asked me if there has been or if there is any girl in my life since my ex girlfriend, i told her that i really liked her. turns out she liked me too, she told me that i remind her of her ex (i thought that was weird but she said thats the type of person she is attracted to) and she kept saying other things then ending is with yes i do like you.. she also told me that she wants to be cautious because she doesnt want to get hurt again and she is also training hard for upcomming triathlons and she doesnt want to lose focus. i told her i understand but if there was anything i could do what should i do.. she told me we just need to hang out more. shortly after that we fell asleep. we didnt talk about it and drove home the next day. just last night i went out to dinner with my friend who i had known for 2 years and is also the best friend of the girl i like.
well i started talking to my friend about it and she was like she really didnt tell me much but she told me that you initiated it, i paused for a second and said she asked me if there was a girl in my life. and my friend told me she didnt really say much else. would my friend be covering up for her best friend and not tell me what she said? she also seemed surprised to hear my version of the story. i also saw the girl i liked in the gym this morning and we spoke for a bit, then she left without coming up to me :( i think she was in a hurry because she had to go home then go back to school and go to class but i was kinda bummed she didnt say bye.
i told my friend last night that i have never felt about a girl like this before and how i talk about her soo much and my friend was like awww i wish someone felt like that about me... now heres my problem... im way too much of a pussy to do anything, i usually wait for the girl to make the first move but i dont think that she is the type of person to do that. is there anyone who can give me some advice on what to do or say to this girl, ive known her for a month now and we got closer on this trip and my heart still flutters when i look in her eyes.
