Don't know if its a heartache or a tv show.
OK Here goes. I've been dating a wonderfull lady (or so i thought) from the west coast. She's in town more than not because of her ailing mother. When she's here she normally stays with her and her step dad and step brother. (very important) Out west she has 3 kids and a husband who she has been seperated for about 18 months now. They all live in the same house. (for kids i thought)
** background very important **
Everything has been going just fine. Our relationship grew expodentually over the last few months. Recently though she has been real distant and we havent seen each other alot in the last few weeks. when i call the converstaions are very short and she doesn't call me back. She went to philadelphia with her step brothre this week end for a concert. No problem. I needed to get in touch with her yesterday and couldn't. So i call mom and this is what i find out ...
She had been dating a guy before me lets call him J. Her mother told me that J. is actually the step brother. Now i'm not making this up. Don't laugh. And they have been planing to get away together for a week or 2 now, but didn't have the money to get away. So who was the idiot who financed this trip? Anyway I was told that they have been sleeping in the same bed for a week now. She told mom she just had to be sure and this would be a sure way to tell. Which mom dissaproved and was gonna call me but she took ny numbers out of the phone so she couldn't.
My problem is that next weekend i planned a trip to VT for us and planned on asking the big question. I really don't know what to do. What if she decided that she was sure about me? How do i handle this. I want to kill her. (not literally) If i would have known the circumstances with J. i wouldn't have made the call the day after we met or allowed myself to fall this much in love. Any advice right know would help. i'm dreading talking to her right now because i don't know what to say. Please Help Me.
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