Need her back and i'll wait as long as it takes
Hello all,
I don't normally air my feelings or thoughts to the world but i'm so desperate at the moment.
I was in a loveless relationship for along time and was secretley in love with my then best friends girlfriend. 5 years past and i finaly made the right choice of ending my relationship as it was not fair to me or the then girfriend. At the same time my best friends girlfriend ended their relationship. As we both had something in common we started to talk more and more with one another untill i confessed my true feelings for her and to my amazement she felt the same way about me. We spent the next 9 months dateing, going place's, holidays and we often spoke of marrage as most couples do. So i made the choice and asked her father if it would be ok to ask her hand in marrage and he said he was more than pleased.
I took her to a romantic hotel got down on one knee and proposed and she said yes!! Now we had been living together in her parents place waiting for me to sell my home so we could move into gether and as you can probably realise not having your own space makes for a stressfull place to live. On top of this she was studying to better herself in her job. We still carried life on and enjoyed each other emensley and planned to get married next year. Being forward planners we had everything booked and almost done. (the dream wedding she always wanted). We argued from time to time as all couples do but instead of listening we tended to brush things to one side untill she aske for time and space to think things through which i was reluctant to do but did it anyway.
I moved back to my house which was being sold and we still texted each other saying morning and goodnight with a good measure of i love you's and kisses untill the third day when i made the mistake of telling her that i was feeling nervous that we were splitong up. I was told to stop all comms to give her space but found it very hard as any reply i did get was suddenley cold and sort of mean sounding. By the second wee she email me to say that she was ending the relationship and engaement and would be down that Saturday with my stuff and to explain why and collect her things.
The day finaly came and she told me that she had realised that she had jumped into this relationship too early and that she needed to find herself as a person and live life. She wanted us not to ever speak to each other again but i convinced her that after 18 months together you cant just do that. I told her that i would rather be close friends than lose her altogether. She told me that she loved me but this is something she had to do and as upset as i was i told her i loved her enough to let her go. I said that over time we may get back together as i have loved her for so long and she was the only one for me. She said not to wait and i shouldn't live in the hope. We were both crying as you would expect.
It has only been 2 days since that day but i feel a piece of me is missing and i want it back. I need it back. I know she loves me and she did agree that we should have taken things slower. I need some insight on how to proceed to get her back in my life one way or the other. I know we still have a chance. Sorry write an essay about it and as you all can understand theres alot i have had to miss out. Any advise please!!!! Thank you all. x