Is It All About Sex ?

I've been talking to this guy for over a year and a half, he always wanted to meet up bu i hesitated .. anyway a few months ago we bumped into eachother at a club and since then we've met up practically every Friday/Saturday since.. He's always maintained that he isn't into relationship and all that, and I wasnt really expecting one from him.. however, this guy is like "the one", we have everything in common, talk every day for hours and on our "dates"... we sit in his car from 11pm - 5am and just talk and laugh .. anyway so it was all fine, except the other day he kept asking me whether i was a virgin or not ... and i had kept this from him coz i know he's very sexually orientated - and i wasnt going to sleep with him unless we were in a relationship.. so i finally told him i was.. and he has this strict policy of not having sex with virgins - not that i was intending on sleeping with him but anyway .. so friday & saturday have rolled around and he hasnt mentioned meeting up or anything close ... so i guess all he was interested in was sex ?
i really want to stop speaking to him and get him out of my life ... coz i think thats what he deserves.. but i cant coz i love him so much ...
ANY ADVICE IS MUUUCH APPRECIATED !!!

Oooo, you posted the same thread twice. :astonish:

No I don't think that it was all about sex, if it was he probably would have tried it on a long time ago and he would've stopped talking to you when you didn't end up meeting - I mean you spoke for a year and a half!!
But the fact is, he said he's got this whole "no virgins policy" thingo ; so, I guess maybe he's backing off? Why do you want to stop speaking to him? You never know, he could be confused because he likes you - who really knows. Have you TALKED to HIM?

it is always this kind of "hide and seek" game that ruins a potential relations........go talk to him and show your true feeling and ask him for the same thing.

its all gooooood !!! ... he called me last night and we met up ... nothing has changed ... i hope anyway ... thank u all for your help !!!
xoxo