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i and my bf has been cohabit together for 9 mths
i was feeling unwell on a day so i took a half day leave from my boss
so back home, i shocked i caught my bf wif another gal on our bed
i left the house in a rush and return to my mum plc
the nxt day, he comes to my mum plc and beg for forgiveness.........
now im very confused, shd i return to his side or not........but i love him very much
No one can tell you what to do in this situation. All I can say is if you take him back you had better not plan on holding this against him and you better be prepared to genuinely forgive him otherwise it will be a very rough road from here on in and there will be no improvements.
Think about it hard before you make any kind of decision.
I can certainly tell you what I'D do - get out now before you are stuck for good. What will you do when this situation arises and you are 7 months pregnant or have a couple of little kids at home?
This is a BIG warning sign for you.
also, IF you do decide to start seeing him again he needs to know that you are not a walk over and that if it happens again he's out for good. dont just go back in the relationship where you left off...start slowly and build it back up gently.
MY opinion- the trust that's been lost is GONE for good. Just end it.
Don't be a gullible female, just be done with it.