what would you think?

first of all i just thought i would like to say thanx to you all that helped me


update on my previous post.......
i took your advice and told my brother everything even showed him the sms and left it in his hands for him to decide wot to do about it....he decided to stay with her.... i dont know what was said between them and i dont really want to....i have stayed talking to her just to keep the peace in the familys because there is only a few that know...... but i havent seen her much i have been trying to keep my distance sort of thing but i do chat to her on IM. and bf chats to her hubby also (9 times out of 10 my bro is on the computer with her so she cant really say much )


here is my problem as you know i have been with bf for a quite a while and i told him everything that happened.....then after a day or so he kinda found it funny and started jokeing around about threesomes....that the kind of guy he is.. he likes to wind ppl up.....it lasted for about a day or so and was never mentioned again.....everything was goin really well he recently told me that he was in love with me which was really great...... i have been on cloud nine ever since and not stopped smileing....... no one has ever said that to me before.. but would he have said it if he didnt mean it?


i was chattin to sis in law then earier and she was askin how things were between us.....so i was telling her that its good an getting better......then came something that i really didnt expect....she said that my bf was chattin to her on IM a few weeks ago and he asked her for a threesome with me and him.... but not to say anythin to me that he sai anything to her... and that he gave her his new number but she didnt keep it


now this is where i get confussed.... im not sayin that bf dont talk to her he prob does...but if he said this a few weeks ago then why wait till now when things are going good 2 say anything???if he did would he have been jokeing??(he says that she looks like a guy tho) but if he did why didnt he say anythin to me? i know i should just ask him but hes in work now and would rather face to face than on phone

if she is lying about it how can i just tell her to stay out of my relationship...and also if he did say it does that mean anything??

i hope i dont sound daft..just need some advice and get it off my chest i really dont know how much more i can take

He may have been joking, but considering how you felt about the whole incident, I don't think it was funny.

Does he generally show poor judgement in how far to take a joke? Do you think there's a chance in hell he actually gave her his number? I kind of doubt that, but who knows what the real story is? (Answer: HE knows. I hope he talls it to you.)

I agree - if this was a joke, it wasn't funny at all. Besides, in order for it to be a joke to share with YOU, wouldn't he have to let you in on it? And sharing this kind of joke with her is... :P

You'd better talk with your b/f.

Why is he chatting with her on IM anyway? This all sounds a bit too incestuous to me.