hmm. i would share how good he is in bed with your female friends. obviously i would leave out the small part-no need. if u could find a way to let him know that you're friends heard he was great in bed i think that would be great. i would stress to him how good he really is and compliment it in other ways.the look of it in detail. is it average width wise? you could compliment that and say it's fat blah blah. i'm actually on the bigger size but let me tell you-i had a girl show very little interest in sex and i 100 percent started thinking (and becoming very depressed) that i was a homely person. it absolutely destroyed me because i was in love w/her,she said she loved me, and i ended up basing everything off her opinion. looking back-yeah sure i guess i was'nt strong enough and you should'nt let anyone else "MAKE" you feel a certain way but it was what it was. as soon as i got away and i started noticing pretty girls started showing interest i was quickly cured of these feelings. but when we were my friggin chest hurt from heartache that she didnt find me sexually attractive. wow. that was long .sorry. good luck.