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Ok guys and gals
I want to ask that Does spending time together with ur bf or gf have any affect on the relationship??
I mean to say if bf and gf are not spending time together like they dont meet outside . Jus talk on phone , online chat and meeting for 5 or 10 mins in school or college.
So if this happens do u think it affects the relationship??
I think it defines the relationship. If you have a thing going where you hardly ever see each other, your relationship is "non-physical". I think it hardly qualifies as a relationship at all, maybe it's a kind of placeholder thing which satisfies the need to have a bf/gf but doesn't take too much time for people who are too busy to be more intimately involved.
so u tryin to say Spending time together is essential??
Well, I guess it depends on what you want out of the relationship. If you want the security of having a date for New Year's without having to have a date for lunch every day, then great. If you want something that's intimate and all about being in love, you can't have that without investing some personal time into it.Quote:
Originally Posted by kai
This is why LDRs are so difficult. Spending time together is really important. The idea of having a bf who lives nearby and I still wouldn't get to see him is unacceptable to me, but that's because I'm trying to do the Big Love thing.
What's going on with you, Kai?