Am I considered a stalker?

Hey all, again! You all know that girl I liked earlier on? Well, this weekend, or more like right now she was MSN and I knew she had a Chinese Final on Saturday. I didn't speak to her at all. Anyways I asked her how it went. She replied that it was Okay and then told me she had to go to bed. Now a word about me before I explode; I sorta have a paranoia with her right now. Whenever I chat w/ her on MSN she avoids me by making lame excuses like I have to go now, inventing all kinds of crap. I used to think she was kind but know I have an incentive to block her.

Onwards ;), I quickly said "bi" and then closed the convo. All the previous convos have been almost identical like this one with me greeting her; she NEVER started a convo with me and then she would sign off leaving me angry. I'm feeling so depressed right now. I just got my internet back after my router got messed for 12hours and now, she just brushes me aside like an insect.

If I'm actually annoying fine; tell me. But indirectly ignoring me makes me wallow in my own despair. Thanks alot guys.

Find out how long she stays online on average. Then, try not talking to her and see how long she stays online.

If it turns out she might be avoiding you, come out and just ask her. Don't be a pussy.

I know she's avoiding me *rolls eyes* I feel so cold. Cold from my heart. Its frozen right now.. Who the hell goes to bed at 9:44 on a Sunday??? I just want to know if she hates me or not. If she does, I'll delete her and all in all the better for the both of us. Its been a bad day aformentioned; I also just came back from a Chinese restaurant where I held open the door for an elderly couple and they thank-you back to me in Chinese first then in English. When I said you're-welcome back in English (brain can't process what Chinese You're-Welcome is) they noded warmly and strode away muttering how Canadian Chinese don't know how to speak their "mother-tongue". Mother fckers. When people hate each other you're supposed to say it, not be a pussy and hide in the shadows slowly freezing your heart every once in a while like poison. She can go suck herself.

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Originally Posted by Angelofstorm;

She can go suck herself.

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YES! Just be DONE with the situation!

I think you're investing too much into this... I think you should be more relaxed. Let it go. If she doesn't want to talk with you, screw it. It's not worth your time if that's the case.

Yeah let it go. If she doesn't wanna talk to you, then you obviously know how she feels.... which is nothing for you.

and btw, I am one of many who go to bed at 9:44pm on a Sunday.

No, you're not a stalker, for God's sake, but I do think you're wasting your time.

Any way, you should practice your Chinese instead of stressing about her. Do you like anyone else?

No, not really. I'm the kind of person who's younger than everyone else in my year. The only girls who are younger than me is that one and my friend who plays badminton w/ me. Thnx all, maybe I'll just relax a bit, breathe in, breathe out =).

Lol, you're no stalker...
I've actually stalked a girl 4 years ago. My friend helped me out...2 way radios were used, binoculars...yeah..and then my friend said...hey, how about you get a life? So I did.

No, not a stalker. But it sounds like she just doesn't want to talk to you or has better things to do. Just block and ignore her, if she likes you, she'll find a way to contact you. Don't get your hopes up though.

Okay, new question. And a quick one too. Should I block her? Or would that give away MY thoughts about her?

why give away your feelings? you know how you feel, and that's all that matters.

if you don't want to talk to her and she bothers you, then you should.

Oh wow, a few days a weekend and I'm acting and thinking strange already *tsk-tsk*. I just can't get her out of my mind!! I'm not the type of guy who just wants a girl for sex and all that bullshit but I can't stop thinking about her. How she looks like. Stuff like that. I'm the kind of guy who's hugs > kisses; most of the times. Okay, now that you know I'm not a disgusting beast, what are my options? Forgetting this whole thing (which I've tried and isn't easy) or continue letting my mind wander around her.

Oh yeah, a bit off topic but how do you make those avatars like the one Moogle's got?

You don't. Someone else does