New guy from NorCal

Well, I'm new to this whole heart break thing, so I did a Yahoo search for a love/break up forum and here I am. My ex and I split up last February and we tried to make it work on and off for the past few months and somehow, we have decided that it's really over. She has sinced moved to SoCal and I got to keep NorCal, but it's not the same here without her.

I really just joined up to get some emotional support, as all of my friends are sick of hering about Julia. But she was the love of my life and I have no idea how I am going to go on without her. Everyday is a struggle and I know others have been here too, that's why I am here.

Everybody says six months, but it's been longer than that and I still think about her all of the time. I really am just a shell of my former self. I have tried to get involved with things that bring me joy and it's really cool, but in the back of my mind I still know that I am trying new things just to get Julia off of my mind. Perpetual circle.

-Chonsey

Hey dude, sorry about the breakup. I will check your thread later, if you made one. I got a paper to type though.

Welcome.

Welcome to LF!
I'm sorry to hear it's taking so long to get over her, that's tough.
and btw, who still uses yahoo? what's wrong with google?

There should be some kind of differential equasion for healing a heartbreak. Variables being length of relationship, level of commitment, intensity of feeling, frequency of contact, etc.

Help me out, Aegis.

right, like the BMI only for breakups.

I think you need some better distraction techniques. What specifically have you been doing with yourself since you broke up?

Welcome, BTW.