Boyfriend chasing other girl even though he's happy?
Hi everyone,
I am newbe and really wanted some advice from you guys! I have a boyfriend of a year and we get on great, he is lovely, loves me very much, affectionate and friends are constantly saying what a good couple we are, hes bit distant at times but he recently moved in with me and has got a bit better.
One day he said do you think I could move in, I want to spend more time with you etc, and want to see how we live together as he has big plans for the future etc
Anyway he has, and since he moved in, I have been seeing how many phone calls he gets and sometimes he goes outside to answer them. Once he was by me and got a call, he said yeah see you soon dude, and I heard it was a girls voice.
I didn't mention anything at the time, but he said he is going round one of his friends house, he mentioned a guys name....hmmmm
Anyway he doesn't seem like the cheating type, very religous and has morals but a few days ago I confronted him and he confessed (after a lot of probing!) that he still trys to pick up other women to show hes still got it, but doesn't take it further!!!
Anyway, at least he was honest and i respect that but I asked him to stop etc and he saw it as a big joke and said I was being silly its just validation for guys and he loves me and promised he never cheated and never would, now he is a very attractive guy so he would have no problems but do you guys think this is a cause for concern??
Thanks a lot
Jess