I want to feel like making love again

I want to feel like making love again.

I am a 22 year old female.

I have my first love.

We have been together a year now. After about 8 months together the urge to make love has drastically decreased.

It is currently at a critical low.



Things contributing to this include:

*He is well endowed and I usually get very sore after love making. I also get urinary tract infections often. I have talked to him about me getting sore.

* We have been together for a while and I am not as excited by our love life now. Even though it is good and has variety.

*My partner is always in the mood as is excessively sexual towards (no exaggeration) and is always touching / humping my leg / masturbating while I sleep / putting his privates in my face unannouced. I am used to saying 'no' so often. I have never dated someone so 'horny'. It annoys me a bit.

*He could smell nicer most of the time. I want to give oral, but he usually smells and that turns me off. I ask him to wash and use deoderant, but I do not think he realises how bad his odor is.


Recently it has been hard for me to get in the mood.
I have not felt like making love for weeks.
I do not even think arousing thoughts.
I do not want to get stuck in this habit.
I want to have a healthy sex life for many years to come.

I know I have to do something to fix the problem.
I also know I have to communicate to him.

I'm worried. Any advice?