this just totally stinks

There is a girl that i adore right now...

She's beautiful, smart, intelligent. but i don't "LIKE" her. Like i don't want to go out with her or anything. She's just one of those people that i love. Meaning that her company is enough to get me through my hardest times. (which it has). I could really care less if we got married or something like that. I just want to be there for her. and vice versa.

Every time i get near her i can see her brightness radiating off of her personality, her warmth protruding from her body. Its just kind of weird that I notice these things and it just give me an overall happy feeling inside.


BUT


shes moving and i have no idea what to do.. I just can get over it, i LONG for her ok?


Oh, and please, No Stupid Ass Comments. Im not in the mood for them

And what makes you think I give a damn what you're in the mood for, punk?

She is a great person to be around and helps you get through hard times, you love her, and adore her.....makes sense why you don't like her....wait....no it doesn't

It sounds to me as if he likes her, just not romantically. Haven't you ever just been friends with a girl before?

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Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

It sounds to me as if he likes her, just not romantically. Haven't you ever just been friends with a girl before?

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Yea, but it is pretty clear he also wants to **** her.

Maybe what you are feeling is the beginning of a crush or something like that?

Sometimes, people don't realize their feelings for someone until something changes(or they move away.)

Either that, or you have really grown to like her as a friend. But friends usually don't LONG for each other "like that".
So, that is whats making me think you feel more for her then you are willing to admit to yourself.

I'm not sure what you can do to stop it. Unfortunately its quite hard to control your feelings. (I know from experience.) So, you can either just let her move on and eventually from lack of seeing her, you will get over it. Or you can try to keep in contact with her and see if a friendship or anything more can develop.

Don't try to squeeze it too tight, Lenny. Just appreciate the wonderful feelings she has brought to your heart, thank God there are people like her in the world and hope your paths will cross again someday. You don't have to get over anything.

ok sorry ... alittle mis wording in the post. i mean to say that i just want her company basically. shes a great friend. i just want to be around her. i just dont wanna get romantic. its wierd but thats what i came hear for, advice.

and thanks so far to len, and giga...

Hey dont feel bad Im in love and I want to go out with her and shes moving. I want to ask her out but Im too shy. I counting down the days til she moves.

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Originally Posted by koolwhip [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

There is a girl that i adore right now...

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shes moving and i have no idea what to do.. I just can get over it, i LONG for her ok?

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You claim you don't "love" her now. Just wait til she moves. You are going to go insane. Just wait.

Trust me I just got done with this exact same situation.

I'm sorry theres nothing you can do about this.

Have a nice day :lol: