Stop Your Breakup .

this is tip i read somewhere

Stop Your Breakup .

Do not run to that special person in your life begging, pleading or crying. Try and erase these three words when you are at the point of breaking up from your beloved. This tactic may have worked in the past or in past relationships but it is no way to rebuild your relationship and get it standing on solid ground, if that is what you want. The only thing this will accomplish is to ensure that you are seen as somebody who is selfish and only worried about your own needs. In addition to that, it's irritating and it might just increase the distance between you and your partner.

Instead of going down this path, get to work on figuring out some of the shortcomings you have that may have led to what is happening now. This isn't saying that you are the reason your relationship may be breaking up; it takes two for it to get this far. The oint here is, that if you take the steps to improve yourself you will be showing your partner that you are dedicated to bringing about positive changes in both your lives.