update two

i think i've come to a conclusion on my ex.

her mom is stalking her. reading her emails, text messages, listening to her phone calls, following her places, everything. creepy.

in some of the conversations my ex and i had have been sexual; making plans to have sex, wanting to have sex, things like that. i think her mom's stalking her has led to discovering these sexual conversations.

when my ex got back from germany, her mom made her go see a shrink about me. i'm not exactly sure how things went with that.

her mom gets angry at my ex when i email the mom and write her kind notes. this is ridiculous. i'm a nice guy. i treated that girl like gold. i was considering staying with her in college..

i'm kindof sick of the bullshit. she needs to get up and bitch-slap her mom and tell her she's wrong. i can't be fiddling around with this mess while i'm in college. i'm having a hard time paying attentino in high school right now!

WTF are you writing notes(plural!) to her mom for?? That's stalkeresque. The way you're placing all the blame for the demise of your relationship on her mom also sounds a bit unbalanced. I suggest you move on.

Oh my god you need to stop. You are almost as bad as david and in some ways even worse. How many more red flags do you need? "Omg guys i walked in on her shooting up the other day i dont no how much more i can take . only 1 more chacne for her." Seriously, you are perpetually self-destructive and seem incapable of setting yourself on the right track.

She is a ****ed up girl. Her mom is a ****ed up woman. It is drama you cannot fix and shouldn't be involved in. She is not going to magically solve all her personal problems, she is not going to stand up to her mom, and you two will not live happily ever after. Move on for your own damn good.

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Originally Posted by TDurden [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Oh my god you need to stop. You are almost as bad as david and in some ways even worse. How many more red flags do you need? "Omg guys i walked in on her shooting up the other day i dont no how much more i can take . only 1 more chacne for her." Seriously, you are perpetually self-destructive and seem incapable of setting yourself on the right track.

She is a ****ed up girl. Her mom is a ****ed up woman. It is drama you cannot fix and shouldn't be involved in. She is not going to magically solve all her personal problems, she is not going to stand up to her mom, and you two will not live happily ever after. Move on for your own damn good.

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lol :D and i really did laugh at this one. you're hilarious

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

lol :D and i really did laugh at this one. you're hilarious

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Awesome, just so long as you pay attention to what I'm saying. I meant every word of that and the only reason I bothered to respond was because I genuinly do not want to see you make any more bad decisions.

lilwing - Walk away from this while you can. Things are done with and it will be a lot better to walk away now, than get your self into drama that can last for years and maybe cause problems for future relationships for you down the road.

You have no idea how well I can relate to you in feeling like you're misunderstood. But the thing is, you can't make people understand if they don't want to understand.

LET THIS ONE GO.

Seriously, I'm getting tired of your incessant flip-flopping.

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Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

You have no idea how well I can relate to you in feeling like you're misunderstood. But the thing is, you can't make people understand if they don't want to understand.

LET THIS ONE GO.

Seriously, I'm getting tired of your incessant flip-flopping.

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Dude, I don't feel misunderstood.

...and I'm trying to let her go.

Don't take this girl with you into your future. She's destructive. Leave her and her wacko mom in Smallville, SD and get out! You don't need any ties to that place after you go. The only reason you still even think of her is because you can't see all of the wonderful things that are going to happen to you after you get out of that hellhole.

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Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Don't take this girl with you into your future. She's destructive. Leave her and her wacko mom in Smallville, SD and get out! You don't need any ties to that place after you go. The only reason you still even think of her is because you can't see all of the wonderful things that are going to happen to you after you get out of that hellhole.

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I concur as much as one can concur.

You know the only way out of this town is by riding on a rail *wink* where shall I meet you.

To be fair to her mother, I can see why she'd panic about sexual activity. If you really *are* living in Podunkville, they are, too. Her mom probably wants to make sure her daughter doesn't get knocked up and get herself trapped there forever.

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

To be fair to her mother, I can see why she'd panic about sexual activity. If you really *are* living in Podunkville, they are, too. Her mom probably wants to make sure her daughter doesn't get knocked up and get herself trapped there forever.

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her mom could've just been cool about it and gave her some pills... i know you're going to say they're not a 100% effective, but i'd still be wearing a condom, and i'd still pull out anyways.

No parent wants a boy screwing their underage daughter (unless they - the parents - are retarded). Sorry, hun - you know I love ya, but someone has to say it. I'm not saying I would have handled it exactly as they did, but I don't blame them for their concern. What is she - 16?

i understand, vashti. this needs to be discussed no further, and here's why:

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(german trip ^^ compliment of one of my friends who went to germany. look at her dumbass smile)

things like this piss me off, especially when she won't evne ****ing takl to me at school. if she ever tries to talk to me again i'm givin her the finger.

not only that, but she was drinking on the german trip-- i have high standards; i don't want a woman who drinks. especially not one that pretends not to drink, and is a drinking hypocrite.

edit: i feel like printing this out and sticking it in her locker with "**** you" written all around it... maybe just the picture. that would be offensive enough.

in other words; SHE IS A LYING BACKSTABBING HYPOCRITE BITCH!!!!!!