So, what do you guys think?

Remember how I met this chik at the gym, she is 27 and I am 22. Would I really want to make a move? I mean, I know she wants me as a fling, because the way she flirts with me and ignores the other guys at the gym lately. She calls me and e-mails me every freaking day. I know sex sounds nice on my agenda, but I have already experienced a relationship like this. The last fling I had was with a 28 year old chik when I was 21 and it she turn out to get deeply in love with me that when I told her that it was time to ease, she started crying and didn't wanted me to go. So...I'm not sure if I should give this a try. Should I talk to her and like ste some kind contract? lol. I don't know, it seems like I attract more older women and it just gets me turned on, but I want to settle down, but with someone I can live with and die with at the same time, yah feel me?
I need positive thoughts now.

Nothing wrong with older women, they're the greatest. But anyways, I would say that you should go ahead and make your move if she's someone that interests you but be sure you let her know exactly what you're looking for in a relationship right now and that if all she wants is a casual sexual relationship then you aren't gonna be into it. Just be upfront and honest about what you're looking for and I'm sure you'll see whether or not she's someone for you or not. Good luck, keep us posted.

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The last fling I had was with a 28 year old chik when I was 21 and it she turn out to get deeply in love with me that when I told her that it was time to ease

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You know, first of all -- all chicks are alike. And when they're the same age, they are not even alike, they're exactly the same. It's the hormones, yes. I don't think you should even be considering a relationship with a woman. Especially, a premenopausal one like this one.

Wow, she is starting to freak me out!
Now she goes to my work and drops off lunch for me. Humm???
What's going on? She keeps sending me e-mails about that she thinks of me during the day(but it's not mentioned in a sensual way). Then when we talk, she just tries to block all other incoming calls and prefers to talk to me. At the gym, she still ignores other guys and says, "I can't believe that guy tried to hit on me". But really, I don't see myself that worthy to be treated this loyal. My last fling was kind of similar to this type of loyalty, but this is too much. But yet, I still haven't spoken to her about what she really wants. Maybe I'm too afraid to see another heart broken or maybe it's just something else? When we talk and stuff, I want to tell her "what's up" but she is always to happy and makes me feel guilty to think what she might say or react when I "break it down" to her. Plus, she always tells me, "how come you don't smile that much"? I think she is guessing that something is wrong in my background and she might think that I have a secret g-friend, because for V-day, I didn't do anything with her but went out with buddys. So, when should I break the news for her? Over the phone, e-mail, or in person?
This is scary shit and I hope it's just a fling she wants. Don't want her to turn psycho on me and say, "If I can't have you, no one can" and takes out a knife. Thanks for the feedback also guys.

whoa.. this girl is bring you lunch?

Um.. hate to say it .. but she sounds hooked already. Having sex with her will only confuse her. She wants you all right.. I willing to bet that she wants you as a relationship too..

If you want casual sex.. be honest.... ontherwise .. you got a stalker situation!
Good luck!

Allright! It's final. We have like a date this saturday. We were talking this whole week and well our convo seemed really nice and I decided to investigate her. I told her that we would go out and stuff(not really a date but everyone ends up calling it a date), and that I wouldn't want to go clubbing because technically, I don't do that anymore, I just want to date and stuff. We might go out to dinner and a movie and see what's up? We'll see what happens. I'm a little nervous now, I wonder how she feels??????

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she flirts with me and ignores the other guys at the gym lately. She calls me and e-mails me every freaking day. [...] She keeps sending me e-mails about that she thinks of me during the day [...] At the gym, she still ignores other guys [...]she always tells me, "how come you don't smile that much?"

[...]I wonder how she feels??????

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Are you stupid, or just pretending?

But no, the best one has to be:
"She is 27, I am 22, it seems like I attract more older women. I want to settle down, but with someone I can live with and die with at the same time, yah feel me?"

Considering that women live on average six years longer than men I think you'd be pretty well set in this case, wouldn't you?

Besides. The girl I'm seeing is 27 and I'm 21. And we're fine.

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You think I'm in Wonderland?

Maybe my feelings are bullshit, who knows? But I enjoy sex, but I don't want to end up cutting her off and creating a "fatal attraction" movie life upon me.

But anyways, we did not go out Saturday as I said we were. Something really important came up and had to postponed it. On friday, my coach(from a independent league) received a call from a minor league scout to see if we would play a night game(saturday) so he could come out and watch. And so we did and I had to cancel going out. When I told her that I canceled, she was pist off and wanted to see me right away. I told her, "what for?" She said she had something to show me. So I went. She let me in and started arguing. We argued for a while but bottome line what she said was, "why the **** do you treat me like this"! and slap me accross the cheek. It stunged, but I said that I was sorry and shit. I know it doesn't make sence and shit because the argument was so long. But, we are not speaking right now. She hasn't been going to the gym. I'm too scared to call and I have written to her but she hasn't written back. Tough luck, huh?

she sounds a little too eager.... and crazy.

go find someone normal lol

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Originally Posted by slesializm4 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

she sounds a little too eager.... and crazy.

go find someone normal lol

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he's 32 now....

Late twenty something women.... hmmm...

Has she had any children yet?

That's a biological time bomb, if you're aiming to wait 5-15 years before children and she's not. Even if she says she is ready to wait, remember that she's at her childbirthing prime and there's a lot of hormones and psych to go with getting what she wants, needs, or think she deserves... if even just on a biological level.

Be sure to do a bit of subtle sniffing around on that one.

It only takes one swimmer...

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Originally Posted by tooxshort [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

he's 32 now....

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No, he's 27 now.

And you ****ers need to stop bumping old threads.