I am crazy...

Hi to everyone,
before typing my situation, I have to say sorry for my english, I am not neither from US nor from UK.

And now... I would like to have a suggest from you.
I had a girlfriend, she was not from my country, distance was very long and we met only twice during our relationship. I spent so lovely time with her, I was so in love, maybe too much... She was too, but only for a short time.
She left me only after a month for another boy, and, I have not had another girl because I am still thinking about her, day & night.. after 2 years!
I have never thought to do this, I know myself, and when somone betries.. no mercy.. but not this time.

Last time I talked with her, was when she left me, then no more...

But I am not able to forget her, the moment spent together, everything... what can I do?

Anyway... I am just 25, maybe the right age to have fun but... I am not able neither to do that even if I could have had some adventures

Thanks to the people who will read and leave any comment and suggest

Two years is long enough to have gotten over the pain of a disappointment- this is about more than just a breakup.

Are you happy being miserable? Some people are very comfortable feeling heartbroken and prefer it to trying to get someone else in their lives. I'm not accusing you of being pathetic, but I think you should at least ask yourself what you've actually done to improve this situation.

You'll never get the old girl back- she's gone. There's someone else out there waiting for you, and you're dragging your feet. Get out there and find her.

You are still in mourning 2 years after meeting a girl twice in person? Giga is right - you are clinging to this pseudo former "relationship" like a drowning child clings to his life jacket. You will never learn to swim if you don't let go.

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

You will never learn to swim if you don't let go.

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Yeah, but if you drown before you learn to swim?

The human body floats. People drown because they panic or struggle.

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

The human body floats. People drown because they panic or struggle.

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I sank because I was still fully clothed.

... and lived to tell the story! Still, good point. Marek - extra weight will drag you down. Cut it loose.

I told you I am crazy

Thanks for your advices.. I will follow them

comment:

there are more important things to mourn over. like an actual relationship. you consider it a loving caring relationship when you've only MET TWICE? how do you get your needs out of that?

suggestion:

i've been there with the online dating stuff. i mourned for a little while but then i realized i have potential. i started going out with people in my hometown. they were all acquaintances. i got to see them all the time. it grew into a deep love. you don't get all of that with an online relationship. get the **** up. stop mourning. you've got potential.