I really need to talk about this:

Hey:

Well, I'm new to the forum, but is 4:43AM and everybody I know is sleeping now and i really need to talk about this. Anyway... I'm in love with this girl, and I say girl because she is 20 and I'm 30, and its something really stupid because I don't even liked her when we first met, and it was not my intention to fall in love of her but somehow I did and even after that I did nothing to end in a relation with her, but today everything got very complicated because I couldn't resist it and I kissed her and she kissed me back and it was really great and everything but after I left her at her house she said to me that she don't want to have a serious relation with me and all this is driving me crazy and I cant stop thinking about it. I hate the idea of being in love of a 20 year old girl, and I hate the idea of a 20 year old girl playing with me, and I hate the idea of having no control over this situation and I hate everything about this situation except her, I really love her and I don't know what to do.

Truth is, she is not playing with me... she is a very nice and sweet girl... I really don't know what to think anymore.

Well, anyway, I really wanted to talk about this, I'm not really sure that talking about it in a random forum I found in Internet will help, but there it is.

CYA guys, take care

Antonio R.

If she says she doesn't want something serious right now, take her at her word. She's 20 years old and I'm willing to bet cash that she's at a different place in her life than you.

I agree with Glyph. You better let this one go.......if she says she's not looking for a relationship, she isn't. And there is a massive difference between 20 and 30, but I think you know this already.

Somebody has to be the grownup here, and she's not even qualified. You have GOT to get a grip.

I think you should post your reasons for not wanting to get involved with a 20-year-old. Maybe if you see them written down, you'll smack yourself back into sense.