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i have thee most beautiful girlfriend in the world. but the problem is, she thinks she is very unattractive. and whenever i tell her how pretty and beautiful she is, (and yes i use the words pretty and beautful, not hot and sexy) she gets kind of upset.
i am dying to prove to her that she really is absolutly stunning.
but i don't know how.
any ideas?
thanks
It is all in how you use the words.
how about you stop wasting your breath telling her how beautiful she is? I had a girlfriend once that did this and I stopped and she started longing for my compliments.Quote:
Originally Posted by TRBMan [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
some women are sick like that and get pleasure by tricking you into thinking that they don't think they're beautiful in order to get you to compliment them more.
Haven't you ever heard the Homer Simpson quote -
"When it comes to compliments, women are ravenous blood-sucking monsters always wanting more... more... more! And if you give it to them, you'll get plenty back in return." ;)
*And by 'plenty back in return' I think you know what I'm on about...thats right ... you can lie about in a hammock all day and your gf will mow all the grass for you :D*
Be a little more creative... don't tell her directly...
Like giving her a pretty flower and saying "Here's a subject for her Queen".
Or you can stare at her until she asks why you are doing that and you just say "Nothing, it's just that you're so pretty...".
Sounds like either
A) She's got some extreme insecurity issues, or
B) She's fishing for compliments
I personally would withold compliments on too frequent a basis......They're always much more appreciated when they're random and completely unexpected. Maybe ask her why she feels the way she does about herself, because its not healthy to have such a poor self-image.