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When a girl is sad because she got rejected by another boy is it a good time to tell her I like her?
I am a good friend of her, we share the same interests and I have a crunch on her... I can manage to stay alone with her, to tell her but I haven't said anything before, as she liked someone else...
So, should I stay near her being her friend and helping her then tell her, or tell right away? Help.
You don't help the girl through a tough emotional time after getting rejected by somebody else. Nor do you jump at the chance to get her when she's most vulnerable.
You're going about this all wrong.
May as well tell her... screw the timing.
You're not even her friend... you're her crush. That's not friendship.
No, she's his crush.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bogi [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Wait. It's the best you can do now.
She's most probably not over her crush yet, let alone ready to appreciate you as a boyfriend. And you will have a lot more chances at a serious thing between you two if you give her time.
If you tell her now and she tells you she likes you too, you can't trust those words. She could just want, for example spite he guys who rejected her. You don't want her to use you.
Do not set yourself up to be the rebound guy. You want to be her next boyfriend, not her Band-Aid.