How Do you Take A Girl's Virginity?

Ok, I'm 23 and I've had sex with girls before just never with a virgin.

I met this girl a couple of months ago and we recently started to date. She is a 21 year old virgin.

Whenever we try to have sex, she cannot bare the pain when I try to put my d1ck in her. I myself have a hard time getting it in and sometimes I feel the urge to cum quickly. Probably because she is so tight. We've been trying for a while and I cannot figure out how to take her virginity the easiest way.

I know it will be painful for her added to the fact that she always says that she wanted to wait til marriage. I like giving her cunnilingus and find that this she loves this and I always end up pleasing her this way. I would love to be all up inside her though. I've never experienced being with a virgin and would love to know the easiest way to take her virginity.

If you've already put it in her, she isn't a virgin anymore.

lol. just take it easy with her.

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

If you've already put it in her, she isn't a virgin anymore.

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No, I never put it inside her. Did I say that I did?

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Originally Posted by cumpatible [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I myself have a hard time getting it in and sometimes I feel the urge to cum quickly. Probably because she is so tight. .

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This sort of implied that you got it in (at least partially), but with difficulty.

Ok, I don't get it inside her at all and I feel like I don't know what I am doing but she is a virgin. I probably worded that incorrectly... Not tight... impenetrable...lol

Are you sure she *wants* you to get it in? If so, then give her an orgasm before you try to insert. It helps to relax the muscles.

I'm not sure, because she pushes me away when the pain hits her. She lets me try first but complains. Is it this hard to bust a hymen?

It depends on how thick it is. (They vary.) Occassionally they have to be broken by a medical professional.

Honestly, though, it doesn't sound like she is all that interested.

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

It depends on how thick it is. (They vary.) Occassionally they have to be broken by a medical professional.

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Sounds comforting and frightening at the same time. I'll keep trying. To be honest I'd really prefer if she wasn't a virgin still but it would be nice to break the seal.

it sounds like she doesn't want to have sex. you can still suggest that she get it surgically removed, but i really think she's trying to lure you into a marriage. :)

omg leave her vagina alone.

omg. i didn't know you can if it doesn't rip, tear, open or whatever you have to do it surgically. eeewwww

Ew?

Yeah, surgical precision is much more revolting than forcefully tearing it up with your dick.

I couldn't even put a tampon in before I had sex. Oooooh too much details. I was 17 when I lost my virginity and yes it hurt.