Oh Lord. Somebody help me out, please.
Here is the deal.
I met this girl. She's in PA, I'm in Ohio. After a few days of talking, she keeps telling me she loves me, and she's buying tickets and coming to see me.
Here's the thing. I've only had a handful of relationships, but I know love rarely, if at all, happens that fast. Another thing is, when I met her, she was sick with the flu. She didn't go out, and she told me she usually doesn't.
For the past few days, she's been going out every day, everywhere. She said she won't go flirt with any guys, but I have serious trust issues, so I don't know how to believe.
I asked her to go out less. (I realize I can't take her life away, but sheesh, EVERY DAY?) And she said no...... she wants to come see me this coming weekend. She is spending 200 USD on the bus ticket and hotel room.
Her history was with an abusive X who she says through her down stairs and cross dressed. Also at times she gets so depressed where she just won't even talk.
I asked for good communication, and she promised me such. But, she's different when she knows she's going out. She's more happy wit5h her, and doesn't need me, or that's what it seems like.
I figured out myself that maybe she likes the IDEA of me being there if something else goes wrong, but when I talked to her about it, she insisted that she loved me because "you are a little nuts in the head and very nice"....
I'm lost, help me please?