The right body language to master
The right body language to master
Your body language tells people around you about your state. People read body language subconsciously, in fact it is one of the most important areas to know when it comes to being social.
We as humans, communicate a lot using our body language. Quiet often, we don't even realise this. Let's try an exercise: assume a sad posture, put your head down, look at the floor and try to smile and say "I am a happy person!" I bet you can't even do it as it's physically impossible and feels wrong. Now, stand straight, look up, smile and say "I am very sad!" Seems weird, right? You see, the reason why you feel this way is because your state is affected by your body and your body is affected by your state.
So if you are stuck with body language problems and don't know how to correct it, here are some quick ways to start eliciting positive body language signs:
Change your posture, stop slouching and keep your back straight. Keep your feet wide apart when standing. Use more space when you sit, lean back, get comfortable, take all the space you can, just don't be rude to others in doing so.
Avoid crossing your arms as it makes you look angry or displeased.
Start smiling more, but do not have a frozen smile on your face, animate it.
Soon, you will start noticing positive changes. People will start treating you with more respect, your confidence will start to climb and overall, you will feel much happier deep down. The trick here is, the more you go by these guidelines and use them everyday, the sooner you will "inherit" these body language traits for good.
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