Well the title almost summed it up. Everytime I go down on my girl and try to play with the Clit (supposed to be really sensitive right?) she likes it for about 5 seconds, and then tells me to stop playing with it because it doesnt feel good. So I go inside an do what I can, I get her going pretty good she says that Im amazing (although Ive only made her orgasm once i think? I dont know she says I do all the time, but I cant tell the difference between when I do and when I dont, besides when she squirts)
Anyway so 2 questions - ?
1) Am I playing with the clit wrong? I play with it almost identical as the way i do nipples, I gently rub them on the sides on the top, in up/down and half circle motions.
2) Is there really a huge defining point between normal stimulation and the female orgasm?