I know I'm a toad but...

I have feelings for my girlfriends friend. We all had a child at approximately the same time.
And surprise, we are all having relationship problems..
I know this sounds, and is, selfish and horrible.
Her friend and I keep "accidently" bumping into each other at the local gym, there is a definate spark between us and it us becoming unbearable
She keeps dropping little hints to my girlfriend. To top it all, she is getting married in a couple of months time to a man who she clearly isn't happy with, she has told my girlfriend this.
Wrongly or rightly, I can't stop thinking about her and I know, by the way she acts around me, the feeling is mutual.
What the Fudge should I do???????????????

Being attracted to other women is normal, justified and understandable.

Cheating on the girlfriend you had a child with, with her friend, is not.

You should accept that that woman is about to get married, happy with him or not, that's her own problem and choice.

Focus on your girlfriend, fix what ever "relationship problems" you have, and forget about that woman.

Stay away from her. A nice girl wouldn't do this to her friend.

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Stay away from her. A nice girl wouldn't do this to her friend.

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I agree, its completely selfish of you to even contemplate this! Everybody finds somebody else attractive, even if it is your girls friend, but thats just human nature, whether you chose to act on it however is your choice! My wise words, don't do it!