Originally Posted by
IndiReloaded
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Tell her what you told us about her & follow up w/her about going out for that lunch. You like her, hopefully she likes you... the rest is just a big black box at this point anyway.
As far as the insecurity stuff goes, you can do a lot to make her feel more comfortable but ultimately it will be up to her to relax about it. She needs to be brought to the realization that there are *always* differences like this in a relationship. Even with dual-pro couples, there is always one who makes more $$, gets more perks, has better hours, etc. Drive yourself crazy (or to divorce) if you get competitive like that. Seen it happen & its not pretty.
Anyway, like I said. Get her to go out w/you first. Worry about the rest as it happens. Good luck, Cam.