3 Years.

Hi there.
Im a younger lad from england and i had a on-off relationship with a girl for about half a year or so.
Although we had our problems I believed that i was in love with her.
Some time later she broke up with me again for good.
She then started going out with a mate of mine, which devastated me really.
Its been 2 and a half years since we were last seing each other and im still hurting.
Another girl has shown some interest in me lately, but im not sure how i feel about her. Theres definatly a connection but im not sure if its love.
Any suggestions or advice?
Thanks in advance.

Tell her you've been hurt in the past. Maybe she'll be more patient than most.

I'm sorry your girl went for your friend. I would never do that. So sleazy.

god, do I now what it's like to have that happen(She then started going out with a mate of mine, which devastated me really).If your still at school,well the crap will hit the fan and your life will be hell.Try and avoid evryone and do things you like to take your mind off it.

You need to try and let yourself enjoy the new girl. Give her a chance and dont be so hooked on whether you love her or not. Just have fun! Laugh, go to the movies, share your day, workout together, attend a street fair, whatever-just enjoy her and see where it takes you. Better than being depressed about someone else. At least for the moment...eh chap?