Getting interest from a friend who knows I like her
I've got a girl who's my best and closest friend but I want to be more. I screwed up confessing my feelings and I think I just scared her away but I know I have it where it matters to her (aka, she finds me attractive and likes my company, etc) I just need to rekindle that sort of interest from her (it was there once, she liked me a lot) because she says that we're so close that she just sees me as a friend now. She's dating now and it's making me feel awful and if I can't go out with her and she just goes out with someone else then I'm gonna cut things off between us cos it's really getting to me. I need to know though, what's the best thing I can do to spark some interest when she's expecting flirting? She's insisted to me that she just wants to have some fun dating and that's all but she's getting close to one of the guys. I insisted that for now I'm happy just being friends while she's having fun dating but I want to have a chance with her myself one day and we've hung out a few times since then (I told her just over a week ago). I don't want to make her choose between me and this other guy because that'd just put pressure on her and I don't want to pester her cos that's a turn off as well.