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So, i'm having a problem where I am really unsure of what men are thinking of my body. I'm seeing someone right now and we haven't had sex yet but i'm insecure about my body. It looks pretty amazing in clothes i can admit but out of them... not so much. I had a surgery a few years ago and lost about 35 pounds ( i was already slim) and it caused me stretchmarks all over my ass. Is something like that going to be horribly irritating. I mean honestly. what do guys think of this sort of thing?
Our opinions aren't gonna matter much here. It's all gonna come down to how you present yourself and how he reacts.Quote:
Originally Posted by alidile [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I will tell you, that a confident attitude can make a person much more attractive in spite of their physique. I didn't find my girlfriend all that attractive at first glance. But she's comfortable with her body, and that helps be be comfortable with her as well. Now? I can barely keep my hands off her when we're around each other.
I don't really know what stretch marks look like to be honest. I've always wondered.
One guy once told me that the sexiest thing a woman can wear is confidence.
Feel good about yourself, and he will respond to that. Insecurity highlights those parts of yourself you don't want him to notice.
I don't know what they look like, either. But I can say that any guy worth your time will overlook them in favor of your other qualities.
Besides, women usually fuss over the silliest things about their bodies. I wouldn't be surprised if your guyfriend doesn't even notice.
Yeah especially if you have a good rig otherwise. I get from your fisrt post that you're fairly toight?
Use bio oil.
Post a pic of your ass so we can better assist you.
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Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I don't think that's necessary. See it this way: When a man wants a one-night stand, he cares about body because there is nothing else to care about. But when you are with someone you love, it's, say, less relevant. What's important is to be with you.
I think every girl would like to have Shakira's bum, but there is no need. Actually, Shakira has a beautiful body, but she's just 1.50 m tall! :P:D
It won't make a difference if he cares about you. We all got lumps and bumps somewhere or another.
looks fade. beauty is on the inside.
Personally don't find the digestive system that sexy.Quote:
Originally Posted by misombra [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Each to their own.
I see lots of naked bodies, and let me tell you: the overwhelming majority of people look better in clothes.
Well.. I read your post 3 times.. At first, I was under the impression that you had scars from surgery, but that's not the case.. Instead you simply have stretch marks from weight loss..Quote:
Originally Posted by alidile [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
To be honest with you, men are very simple sexual creatures.. remember, men don't think like women.. What do I mean by that??
Well, the reason this is bothering you is because you know that if you are having sex with someone, and you see something that is slightly "off" visually.. (like yellow toe nails, uncliped nails, hair in the wrong places, etc).. then it will kill your mood significantly and take away from the experience.. Not the case with guys.. (but seriously, still take care of your nails & wax)..
If you look great in cloths, and things start getting hot & heavy.. chances are, when he's turned on and aroused.. it would take an alien invasion to put him out of the mood.. that being said.. once he's in the mood, your clothes will start to come off.. and in his male mind.. you'll go from (wow, she looks so hot.. to OMG she looks so hot & she's taking her clothes off).. that's it.. because the male brain is generally so primative.. (and this is comming from a guy).. it generally won't process the situation and further.. (remember, the male is very practical.. it's built to get aroused, and quickly reproduce.. no if's and's or but's)..
Personal Experience: My current girlfriend has stretchmarks.. Her epilepsy medication in High School made her gain weight.. after brain-surgery & new medication, she lost over 40lbs! That caused stretch marks all over her waist & butt & thighs.. But for 2.5 years.. that hasn't stopped me.. I mean.. honestly.. It starts off with what she's wearing.. then.. with what she's wearing under that.. and if u have hot/sexy undies under your hot/sexy clothes.. then the rest is history.. seriously.. (minor variations in skin texture and smoothness will not even ruin the moment slightly for a guy).. In fact if you asked me to "instantly improve my gf physically".. removal of her stretch marks would not even be on my list..
Sex Tip for Women: most of the mood (sexual) is built up way before any clothes come off.. But what clothes you wear have a HUGE impact on how much your male partner enjoys sex, when the clothes are off.. So, like a cheezy viagra/cialis ad "when the moment is right.."... make sure you're wearing both sexy/hot clothes, and underwear.. it'll go a long way... even if he doesn't thank you.. verbally anyway..
Japanese girls are popular now cause they are small. Guys like petite girls the shorter the better.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tedel [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Women like tall and big guys I think.
And no Shakira has too big of an ass, she might be popular among Africans and Latin Americans but not to Asians Europeans et c.