The tale of two loves, is it possible?

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Looking for advice from anyone!!!

So I'm pretty sure that I'm in love with 2 people. I'm married and have been with my husband for 5 years but only married for 3. Recently I met someone that I had been talking to online for over 5 years. He stayed at my house for a month. He loves me dearly and so does my husband. But he knew before he came to see me that I was married. After he left, he claims he loves me and he said he wanted me to get a divorce. I love both of them. I know it's not morally correct but I need advice. He thinks I'm lying when I tell him I love him, but I'm not. :( Any advice would help.... thanks.

Do you have children? If so, you should NEVER talk to the internet guy again. If you don't have children, I don't see much hope for your marriage working out anyway, because you haven't been married all that long and are already starting to stray, so you should tell your husband what you've been up to.

You never said did you cheat on your husband ?

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Do you have children? If so, you should NEVER talk to the internet guy again. If you don't have children, I don't see much hope for your marriage working out anyway, because you haven't been married all that long and are already starting to stray, so you should tell your husband what you've been up to.

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I have no kids

unfortunately you cheat on your husband ...

Sorry to say but there is no easy answer to your dilemma.

Re: your question. Yes, its possible to love more than one person at the same time. Of course.

Re: your problem. You haven't actually said what you want.

What do you want? Figure that out first. Then act in the way that will bring you closer to that.