how can i make my boyfriend feel ok about oral sex?
my bf and i have been together for 7 months now and have an active sex life - but he has a problem performing oral sex on me. i've got a brazilian, have showers just before we make out, have dressed up and have even bought flavoured lube - and he's only done it once for like 30 seconds! he says he had a bad experience the only time he's ever done it to some random on holiday in a shower - but i don't know what was so bad about it and i can't really stomach asking him anymore about it. it's ruining my self esteem!! i've tried talking about it with him, but part of it is fear of being bad at it and the other part seems to be something to do with the taste. please help!