Ex gf probs help plz!

so me and my gf have been broken up for almost 2 weeks and it has been real rocky. now we are dating and she says she wants to work things out with us but still wants to date other people and constantly asks "if i get back with you will you do this?" and so on about stuff. whenever i see her in person shes really loving and about 2 days ago she told me she still did love me but is still going to keep dating me to see if ive changed my ways in which i have. she has a date tonight but she talks about the guy like hes a nobody saying stuff like "yeah im going to meet him here because why would i want to take a guy to my house if im not going to be dating him for long"? my question is is she stringing me along until she finds something better or what is she doing? thanks in advance for all the help ladies!

It really sounds like it could go either way. She may be stringing you along until she finds someone that she is comfortable to move on from you with, or she may just be trying to see what it is that really makes you someone she wants to be with by dating other guys and seeing that they can't give her what she has. Just be prepared for the worst, but hope for the best.

Look, maybe she's a nicer person than I am and I just don't understand her motives. Or maybe she's a terrible, inconsiderate person who is punishing you for some wrong, real or imagined, in a way that makes all women look bad.

Either way, if you go for this, you deserve it. I think you should tell her NO. Either she's with you, or she isn't.

So she wants to be in an open relationship, basically? To hell with that, my friend. You need to give her the speech about "how relationships consist of 2 people"

Tell her you aren't going to work anything out, you're not even going to consider her unless it's going to be monogamous.

Sounds to me like she's trying to make you worry and possibly make you jealous by dating other guys.
However, she still isn't angry enough or bitchy enough yet to pretend she's serious about any of them. She tells you flat out that she doesn't plan on dating them long.
So, you see, she wants you to worry but doesn't want to feel TOO guilty about it.
She just wants to teach you a lesson in hopes that you will miraculously change your ways. What about her? I'm sure she has some changing to do, especially if THIS is what she does to "reach you."
Good luck buddy. In my opinion, you should tell her that you'd be willing to make some changes if she'd be willing to grow up and stop playing games with you.
Giga & lilwing are right, either she's going to be with you or she's not. There's no inbetween.

what ever BITCH's, i love my man

~Melinda

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Originally Posted by Mikev123 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

what ever BITCH's, i love my man

~Melinda

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Dear Dumbass

If you love your man, then what on earth possesses you to be so insensitive as to date other people?

Love

Mish

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Originally Posted by Mishanya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Dear Dumbass

If you love your man, then what on earth possesses you to be so insensitive as to date other people?

Love

Mish

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Point proven. Sounds like slave and master to me.

Sorry guys she looked through my email and saw what i posted we are back together now though lol

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Originally Posted by Mikev123 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Sorry guys she looked through my email and saw what i posted we are back together now though lol

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Please break up with her.

Now.

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Originally Posted by Mathias [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Please break up with her.

Now.

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Yeah, no f**king kidding. Have some self-respect.

Bitch can't spell so good, huh?

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Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

So she wants to be in an open relationship, basically? To hell with that, my friend. You need to give her the speech about "how relationships consist of 2 people"

Tell her you aren't going to work anything out, you're not even going to consider her unless it's going to be monogamous.

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Totally agree with you... leave first and ignore her... better yet download this and read it.But please no speaches or bagging... nice clean break...

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http://rapidshare.com/files/66176680/Sistema.rar

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