girlfriend not sexually attracted to me
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Ok, so here is the deal.
I have been in a great relationship for the past 9 months. We get along great, have many similar interest and are basically best friends.
However, a week ago my girlfriend told me that she is not sexually attracted to me. She says that she doesn't know if she ever was, but is not at this point in time. She does not think im ugly or anything, it is just that she does not have the physical/sexual attraction to me.
She was the one that asked me out, and she said she did it because she loved my personality and just me in general.
We have had sex about once a week since we have been in the relationship and she said that there has only been one time where she was really into the sex and really felt attracted to me.
Last night I was at her house and we where watching Friends on her laptop on her bed. In one of the episodes Ross and Rachel get together for the first time and have a very passionate kiss. Not too long after the episode was over she turned to me and kissed me in a very passionate way. She then put away her laptop and we continued kissing. After a minute or two she stopped and just kind of laid down. She had been feeling a little sick earlier that day so I thought that her stomach may have been bugging her again.
I asked her about it and she said that she "wanted what Ross and Rachel had" but that shortly after she started kissing me she did not want it any more, the feelings just went away.
This whole situation is stressing us both out and really really frustrating her.
She does not know what she wants. But she did say that she does not want to ever lose me as a friend and that she really wishes she could change the way her body acts towards being attracted to me. She says otherwise it is a near perfect relationship, which I also think.
Also, she has said that she rarely sees guys that she is sexually attracted too. (and yes she is 100% hetrosexual)
And she says that sex with me is usually nice, she is just missing the attraction/want to have sex with me.
What should we do?