what am i to him?

so i dated this guy right after he got out of a relationship with a girl that went on and off for about 3 years.i meet him through his best friend we got close really fast. and could keep our hands off eachother. things were great. we were always laughing and having a great time. after a couple months i noticed one night he wasacting distant, which wasnt like him at all. i asked him about it and he said that he had just found out his ex was dating someone new. which made him jealous. i told him he had no idea what he wanted, and had extremly hurt me in the procese. his ex and him got back togeather for about 6 months, but have now been broken up for awhile for good(so they both say) anyway...since im good friends with his friends i ended up seeing him again. we had a heart to heart. he told me he was sorry for ever hurting me and that he still thinks im a great girl. he said that he just had to finish things with her. he ended up kissing me, which eventually leaded to a little more. a week or 2 later he calls me to hang out, but i was busy. but havn't heard from him since. i still care for him, what am i to him, im soo confused?!?

A rebound, obviously. Don't waste your time.

Don't waste your time!. I did something similar: I get a random girl (friend actually) while a was breaking up with the "real girl" (obviously with all the "I care about you" theater involved). I think I did it to make things easier for me, I thought... by doing that ,the break up wouldn't hurt that much,.... but is actually worst cause I had to break up twice!!.

you are somebody that he hooks up with to forget about her and to make her jealous. you are his tool.

if you would like to save yourself from a lot of pain and embarrassment, then run away as fast as you can.

if he cares enough about you he will call you, he will want to see you, and the thought of you with someone else would hurt him. So if he doesnt call you that means he just isnt that into you.

Well.. maybe you are not his tool.. Maybe you are not the rebound.
I know that when you come out of an relationship that went on and off.. and you meet a new girl that seems more competent and promissing you get the feeling it can be better than a relationship that goes on and off.

Maybe he sees that you are that better girl and if you would confront him with it directly all the doubts will be cleared up!

If you ask me.. I would confront him with it and make a decision based on his awnsers!

If you turn out to be his rebound girl, THEN you can aways decide to move on.. if you don't do that and wait to be rejected you will hate yourself for a long time. Or when you call it off now you will always wonder weither or not it could have worked!

Maarten