My friend is having a FWB relationship with a guy. The other day she told me that during sex, she did the finger in the bum move. She said she was quite surprised at his "extreme lack of tightness".
she thinks, since he obviously enjoys her, that perhaps a long time ago he expiramented. I think that if it's so obviously stretched out, he's probably bi and still doing guys as well as her (he's been very clear that they are not exclusive) and she needs to ask him what's up.
She doesn't want to ask him for some crazy reason.
so what we want to know is, does it "bounce back" or "stay stretched" if there is no anal activity for a while? If it's stretched out, doesn't that indicated continued activity?