No, I call myself a late 30's bachelor.
She'll quit calling me when she finds someone :) She has in the past gone for several months without calling, which I take it to mean that she was dating. Then, when it doesn't work out, she calls me again.
I was nice to her once. I stood up for her friend who was getting abused by her boyfriend at the church function (her friend's boyfriend was cheating). Somehow, she was impressed by my kindness and she seemingly never forgot it...and it was nearly nine years ago. I remember that she talked with me for hours after I stood up for her friend. It was practically morning before we said goodbye.
I wonder if I was a different man back then. I think that I was.
Goodnight.