committment

Hi my friend and i are almost there as a couple. we do activities. We haven't kissed or anything. She has been divorced and has had it with guys. I might be the last guy that she has hope in now, or i can at least restore faith back into guys for her. but the thing is.

How can i get her to commit or even bring up the subject with her. what makes people from not committing? I do not want to go to fast with her so i just want to understand her process or the stage she is at.

thanks

She's not even ready to date, let alone commit. You can't make this happen, you have to let it happen.