is it cheating if for a girl to spend most of their time talking to a male friend. I dont like to be jelous but am starting to think it doesnt matter if theirs nothing physical its still cheating i dont want to be ignored for this guy anymore. I really am not allowed to have female friends cause she really is the jelous type. I havent cheated on her but she has on me. I know this guy wouldnt tell me if she was doing something to betray me so i dont trust that anyone of them would be real with me. Funny part is she is doing a lot of the same stuff my ex one of her former best friends used to do to me but then she would say how ****ed up it was. In fact she kinda told me to just forget her now if i tool her advice that she gave me then i would have to leave her. Seems like i keep thinking what am i doing putting up with this.