married with lady freinds

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20-02-08, 09:14 AM
walkguy

married with lady freinds

Good evening ladies i have a situation i am friends with many ladfy friends nothing wrong with that many of them are single , some married , some divorced etc but i am friends with this one married woman she is 46 and we do alot of things together all very platonic in nature recently when we leave each other for the day or evening we have kissed on the lips mainly as a thank you but i think she likes me as i like her we are both not 100% happy in our marriages
is this a form of cheating on either end of our marraiges ?? let me know what you think on this
20-02-08, 09:15 AM
Illusional

it's nothing. i bet both of you were drunk and if you weren't then i wouldn't really stress about it.

however, keep this in mind, both of you have somewhat a physical attraction to one another. if you let it go past that, then you'll looking for trouble.

raverboy
20-02-08, 09:24 AM
vashti

I think if you are keeping this behavior a secret, then it is obviously inappropriate.
20-02-08, 10:14 AM
bluesummer

Well how about we look at it this way. How would you feel if you knew your wife was spending time with a man who she suspected liked her, and she sort of liked him back, and they were kissing goodbye on the lips?

I, personally, would consider that pretty close to cheating. It's definitely inappropriate.
21-02-08, 01:27 AM
Gigabitch

I would be pissed off if I found out my man was doing this, and I'm pretty sure both of your spouses would agree.
21-02-08, 06:00 PM
LostNotFound

if you leave your wife to spend time with another woman and then kiss her - i would say thats cheating. and i also would be pretty pissed.
22-02-08, 07:54 AM
bloodtippedrose

If youre unhappy in your marriage then be a man and get out of it before you do anything secretive with any other woman. Damn arent vows sacred to anyone anymore?
22-02-08, 09:46 AM
misombra

is she on drugs?
22-02-08, 02:04 PM
IndiReloaded

Cheating. Yes.

Duh.
22-02-08, 02:06 PM
IndiReloaded

Quote:

Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Damn arent vows sacred to anyone anymore?

There are still a few of us masochist-types left...
27-02-08, 05:58 AM
bloodtippedrose

Quote:

Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

There are still a few of us masochist-types left...

exactly. if you went the distance and tied the knot then suffer for your mistake and live with the bitch.
27-02-08, 08:42 AM
IndiReloaded

Are you bipolar, BT? Just wondering...
27-02-08, 10:05 AM
Only-virgins

Quote:

Originally Posted by bloodtippedrose [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

exactly. if you went the distance and tied the knot then suffer for your mistake and live with the bitch.

You just said to be a man and get out of the marriage if you don't like it though...... ?
02-03-08, 01:14 PM
bloodtippedrose

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Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

You just said to be a man and get out of the marriage if you don't like it though...... ?

I never said about getting out of marriage, im just saddened by how people dont take vows seriously anymore. I dont think people should be unhappy with the people theyre with but I dont think people should marry each other if theyre not going to devote themselves fully to each other
02-03-08, 03:26 PM
bobbiedaley

I don't think kissing anyone outside of your spouse is okay, especially on the lips. Unless you have that sort of relationship. Would you be okay if you found out your wife was kissing her male friends on the lips?