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do you believe in loving/liking someone the first time you saw him/her?can there be instant attraction/spark though its your first accidental meeting?? its like you're riding on a bus/car then someone passes by & after that you kept on thinking about that person?you wanted to know that person but you just don't know how because you're both a complete stranger.
I do not believe in love at first sight. Think about this. What makes you even think that love at first sight exists? The only possible thing that makes your brains react this way is the beauty. At this point, you are only physically attracted to the person. That is all it is. Nothing more and nothing less, so dont get fooled by your instant thoughts of love.
Now, let me tell you something, love is for teenagers, more mature people there is no love --it is replaced by strong friendship bond.
How can you be in love with someone who you didnt speak to? You dont even know what they are all about. You dont know their history. You basically dont know anything about this person and yet, you are in love at first sight? Doesnt make sense.
Love or friendship if you will, builds up when you begin to get to know the person through a conversation. You might like their personal traits or you may not. Then it weighted out, more good stuff about this person and less negative stuff will definitely make you want to be his/her friend.
You fall in love with persons character not the looks, however, you do have to be physically attracted to them otherwise you cant really like the person , even with amazing character.
I really hope this helps! Good Luck!