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i'm new on here and i have been having an issue that me and my boyfriend were wondering if anybody could help us figure out. no matter how turned on i get and how awesome the sex feels, i can't seem to finish. does anybody have any ideas on what could possibly be causing this problem and any possible solutions to this problem. and it's not just him, this has happened with every person i've been with sexually and i'm very confused and frustrated with this issue. HELP!
A large percentage of women are unable to orgasm (15-20%, I believe). Usually, it has to do with inadequate clitoral stimulation or psychological factors (stress, don't adequately trust partner, etc.) Birth control pills are often a problem. Hormonal inbalances and can cause you to have more difficulty reaching orgasm.
You should see a doctor to have your hormone levels tested to rule out physical reasons, and be sure you are receiving adequate clitoral stimulation.
Also (maybe most importantly) can you reach orgasm via masturbation?
use a vibrator and you'll get off by yourself long after he has fallen asleep.
raverboy