I emailed him back

I sent him a response (see bottom email). He hasn't responded. A friend of mine said it sounds like I was just thanking him for being honest... and not that I wanted to continue to try to maintain contact. Does it?
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Hi P,
I must have said something that turned you way off. No biggee if you don't want to pursue anything.. but can you throw a sistah a bone?

L
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Sistah! No, was I supposed to do something? Last we spoke, you weren't feeling well. I then drove to NYC and back on the same day and am trying to to simultaneously recover and move forward work-wise. All in one week
I DID read your forum posts. Interesting.

p
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“Interesting”. Ah I see. Dare I ask?

L
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Nothing too controversial, although I see you are still dealing with situation/emotions with an ex.
I am going to [other state] this weekend....checking out some land....
Hopefully we will talk more when I return.

p
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Hi P,

How was [other state]? I spent the weekend at a friends and got the opportunity to jam with some really great musicians!!! Always a treat! Regarding my posts... yeah I was quite beside myself when I wrote them. I also didn't realize they would forever be embedded with my profile. I created a new profile a few months ago, but completely forgot about it. I have moved forward since though... hence my frequent reaccessing of [dating site] lately and making new connections.

Anyway... thanks for letting me know. I really appreciate it and your candor.

I don't think it's going to happen with this guy. I strongly suggest you get into therapy about your daddy issues, which I can clearly see from all the way over here. I say that in the nicest way possible.

In the meantime, just stop pursuing unavailable men. Stop.

This guy isn't unavailable! This is a totally different scenario!

He's not responding to your emails. He's blowing you off, for God's sake.

You sound desperate. Desperation scares guys away. He isn't interested. If he was he'd be contacting you. Believe me. Just walk way slowly before you become a creepy stalker chick.

So his comment "Hopefully we will talk more when I return"... was just him being polite?

Why are you asking opinions about a message you sent AFTER you sent it?

Its not like you can take it back or change it, lol.

you're a freakin nut.

You're a sad person.

But I can't feel bad for you because you continue being dumb.

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Originally Posted by nebulachic [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

So his comment "Hopefully we will talk more when I return"... was just him being polite?

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Yes.

And if you keep pushing it he's going to have no choice but to lash out and say something nasty. Just relax. Don't contact him again. If we're wrong about it HE'LL contact you and everything will be great.