same story with ex.....???
About 2 years ago i started seeing a boy, I really liked him, and he liked me. we were kind of dating, sleeping together, partying together and so on. anyway, after about 2 months i wanted to know where i was with him, and he couldn't answer, all he said was he didn't want a proper reltionship at that time. so didn't sleep with him after that- obviously, and afer about a week he started seeing someone else. i was jealous and started to get crazed about it. I must admit i went a little pyscho, and i think i scared him! anyway, we saw each other often at clubs and that, and we were fine with each other, then i realised that i really missed him and wanted him back. i liked him so much, he was just the perfect guy for me! anyway, i kind of got obsessed with him, and i couldn't see any one else because i wanted him. after a while things did get better, i forgot him and have since been in other relationships. at the end of it all, we didn't even speak to each other. i knew through friends he was working away, and there were times when his friends got in touch with me, because apparently he wanted to know what i was up to. so anyway, i didn't think we would ever speak to each other again, i have always talked about him to my mates and that. so the other day he texts me! since then we have been constantly texting, i know he only ever comes home every 2 weeks, and i know he doesn't want a relationship. I have always wished to have him back, who knows if he might change his mind about the relationship??? i know all he wants is someone to sleep with, i don't know if i am fixing myself up for more heartache again......what do you think??? it might go good, it might not, i don't want to let my feelings from then come in to it now. we have both changed, we are older! things might be different??????