girls, in what sense do you find guys attractive?
In terms of physical attractiveness, how would you describe a man? Is he beautiful, cute, sexy, handsome (whatever this means).
I mean, when I see a cute girl, I just want to look at her because she is good to look at. Is this the same feeling with you ladies?
what do Chinese women think
I think it's a matter of taste on both sides. In China, we think a man and woman must have special luckiness to become a couple. Surely their appearance should appeal to each other. I was trying to say no matter how good or how bad you look, there must be a woman or women who appreciate it. e.g. I'm not a tall girl, not strong or very pretty, so I tend to like those who are not very tall, and I don't like tough guys (such as sportsman). Interestingly, many girls here think handsome guys are not reliable, because these guys tend to play around.
I said it is a matter of taste on both sides. I mean, there must be a type of girls that match you. So you also have the right to choose. If the girl you're pursuing simply doesn't appreciate you at all, you have every reason to give her up and pick another. In Chinese, we say "every one is pretty/handsome in her/his lover's eyes". I hope this can help. So be confident and find the one who really can appreciate you both in the appearance and in a more profound way.