My problem with her past....
I need your help. I have am having a problem dealing with a one night stand my wife had long before we met.
One night while we were dating I made the fatal mistake of talking about out past relationships. She mentioned she had a one night stand in Vegas that she regretted very much. That was out of character for her. I could never imagine her doing that because of her personality and how shy she is. That was a few years ago. We have since gotten married and on accident, that one night stand came up last week.
We had our first real date in Vegas and I said to her last week joking something to the effect, 'what good comes out of Vegas with dancing and drinking?' Referring to us and our wonderful relationship we have. She looked confused and said' ug, oh, you mean that mexican guy I told you about years ago that when I told you, you got upset? I said, um, no, us!
I can't seem to let that not bother me. I don't know why. Last night we were watching a stand up comic. He brought up one night stands in Vegas, if you could believe it. I got those feelings back. Painful feelings that I know are not her fault. It's something in my past relationships that triggers this. I don't care about any of her past relationships, but this one like I said, seems so out of character for her. I wish I could let this go. I know it's not fair to judge her on her past.
Does anyone have any advice for me?