Devestated-"Caught Having Sex" HELP!
I am really embarrassed to write this, but I need as much HELP as you can muster.
Here is my story.
I am 20 years old and a goodie good and a virgin.
I have been dating my first boyfriend for 9 months, now.
He is 23 an has been intimate with two of his past girlfriends and his family knows it.
Valuing my desire to not have sex before marriage, both of us have been so careful to avoid tempting situations.
I work with emotionally disturbed children and was assaulted by a 200+ pound student about a month ago.
My work has a "no contact" policy and so all 110 lbs of me was "body slammed" by this large child over and over again for about 5 minutes.
I was required to report to his parole officer and encouraged to get a physical to make sure I'm all OK.
I felt fine and so I didn't go to a doctor but I have this horrible bruise on the upper inside of my leg that hurts when I move and is changing to gross colors.
I know that if I go to the doctor and he sees the bruise, the boy will have received his "third strike" and go back to juvenile hall.
My boyfriend works as one of those medics for high school football games and is used to seeing and surface level diagnosing bruises and the like.
I finally told him about it, yesterday, and he said he would take a look at it but I didn't want to lift my dress and show him right there in his family's living room.
To help me to feel more comfortable he took me into the laundry room and sat me on the washing machine and closed the door.
After he looked at it he decided to kiss it and that is the EXACT moment when his older sister barged into the room.
We were both fully clothed except my dress was lifted on one side and his pants were unbuttoned because the button fell off that morning (It's a coincidence, I swear).
Now his sister thinks that we were having sex and I am SO embarassed.
He explained the situation but I KNOW that it sounds far fetched, even if it is the truth.
I don't know this sister, too well, but the family knows my moral stance.
What should I do- should I talk to her about it or just let it be and hope it blows over.
I don't even want to see her, right now, and it isn't because I am mad- I'm just ashamed of what she might think.
I rarely see her or talk to her and so it would be out of the norm to do so- but would it be better just to face it while it's recent?
It just stinks because my boyfriend and I are getting all the negative repercussions of getting caught having sex and didn't even get to enjoy, at all, having sex.
The worse part is, I am a Bible and Theology/Clinical Psychology major getting ready to graduate and pursue a job as a Christian Counselor and Pastor.
I know this is long but I am DESPERATE and devastated.
What should I do?
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