Long relationship break up ; ; any advice?
I have gone out with the same girl for three and a half years and we recently broke up and i am having a hard time with it...........we still hang out quite alot (which i hear is a bad thing) but its hard to tell the person no because i still love her and dont want to hurt her feelings she is very sensitive and takes things personal (part of the many reasons we broke up) any advice as to what to expect and what to do for the future?
Also last night we talked and she said she just wanted to go back out again and started crying i told her we both needed time to think and she got mad and said she just cant talk to me ever again and then five minutes later she said please can we go back out again............shes really confusing me and is flip flopping alot..............she basically broke off the relation ship which really wasnt working for many reasons but now shes making things worse and although im sad im not so sure i want to go back into this relationship but its hard for me to tell her that because i really dont want to hurt her feelings ; ; sorry to ramble ; ; any advice? or past exper to call on?