So, the last time I was here, I'd met someone on line. And, we met...she drove two hours and I drove two hours...halfway point. Anyway, it was a great lunch and discussion. Did not feel the jingle-bells around the heart or anything, but she was very nice and all.
We've spoken by phone for three or four months. She's revealed some things about herself...she partied, she has a tattoo on her lower back, she and her family aren't very close, etc. Okay, no judgment on my part since there are things in my life (I just don't reveal everything right off the bat). So, we get to talking about family one evening and she asks why my great aunt died so young...I said "crime of passion," my uncle did something."
Can you believe it, but within three seconds she had come to erroneous conclusion that I would also be predisposed to do the same thing...simply based on the fact that someone in my family (nearly 100 years ago) had a bad marriage.
So, apparently I must quietly listen to her issues and not judge but she's free to spout off?
Am I wrong in not calling her again? Is there an outside chance that she's under stress (I think work is pretty busy) or that perhaps she's having something else going on, etc.?
Or, should I just not cut her any slack and move on?
If she's so busy, why does the dating site indicate that she's visited within the last 20 hours...which indicates that she's looking. Of course, I was on the site too, which means I'm looking....
I don't know protocol on these dating sites....its all rather odd to me. Also, I haven't called in a week, so in dating site "time" is that pretty much the equivalent of not calling in realtime years?
Not upset; just confused.
